Oh ya, I'm still trying to adapt to my new life, new environment and extended family members. I am slow in accepting the changes. Perhaps, it takes a year or a longer period. Our lifestyle and routine was totally different. I still could worked things out with my hubby if there was a different opinion but his parents' way of doing things and lifestyle really......yeah, I still need time. There was a communication barrier between us. Their traditional mindset just could not accept the new things or listening to the youngster. They think they are right ALL the times~! So yeah, let them be. It was really a tough role! *shaking head* Man never understand how pressure and tough for us and our married life. Aiks, I should stop my bad habit to ramble on and on about my pressure life~ Okay, I would like to share some details on my wedding day.
Love this flower pot from Floral Sense, Sibu. I choose tulip instead of rose.
Well, I did not walked down the aisle in the church. We just had a simple morning tea and blessing ceremony by pastor in my house before the groom 'fetch' me to his house. That's my regret for the rest of my life for not walking down the aisle in the church. It was one of my dream, you know. Sigh. My mistake for not asking people's advice on the whole marriage procedure in church. There are some rules for holding a wedding march in church. First, you must not registered for more than 28 days or 1 year. Second, you have to attend the marriage class. Third, not moving in together yet. The rest of the rules, well, you know. And I broke the first rule!!!!We have our ROM for more than 1 year already. So that's a BIG no no no! I only found out the rules after we registered. @#$!#$%*^% Besides, our different Christianity also a big question to us. He is a Catholic while I am a Protestant a.k.a. Methodist Church. If we really going to have a wedding march in church, so whose church should we go? Hmmmm. I want to go mine and he wants to go his. So end up, we got into argument. To save all the troubles, we just held a small blessing ceremony at my house.
Signing an 'agreement' - wedding vow from my hubby
Putting the ring onto your index finger and pronounced that we belong to each other!
When my dad walked me down the stairs and handed me to my groom, I almost burst into tears. Now I understand why the girls are crying on their wedding day. I hold back my tears because I didn't want to mess up my make up. It was sad to leave my parents and my parents' house!!! It felt like I was no longer belong to them anymore.
Another regret on my wedding day was I got myself an expensive and 'so-called' professional photographer. Really very disappointed and frustrated with their unprofessional-ism and lousy services. I only got my photos recently, after 6 months of my wedding. The photos taken were so 'unskillful'. That was because mostly was taken by his inexperience assistance. Guess what, the assistance could not find my hubby's house so he just went home without informing or asking for direction! Yet, we had to pay the full amount to them and waited for 6 months to get the photos. Moreover, MOST of the photos were f-ugly! @#$%@#$^&
My wedding heels - Morning wear
We were exhausted by the end of the day. Smiling and shaking hands. Both my face and legs felt numb and sore towards the end of the day. I was wearing 5 inches heel. Nearly got myself tripped and felled numerous times but luckily I could hold back. Oh yeah, I also almost got myself burned because the spotlight underneath was burning my evening gown while I was standing there shaking and thanking the guests for coming. I smelt something burnt but still I had no knowledge that my gown had been burnt into one big hole. I just brushed my evening gown behind and away from the spotlight. I only realized the big hole when someone told me about it. Ridiculously, the bridal shop owner asked me to pay RM1200 for that burnt gown. Hello!!! That gown did not looked that expensive to me. It was most probably from China which cost around RM200 - 400 the most. Besides, they could sewn or altered the hole and rented to people again. The hole was at the tail of the gown so it could be covered up. They did not returned my RM200 deposit and plus my gown rental money, that was more than enough for the compensation, right? Tsk tsk tsk tsk, trying to con my money. %^$&#(@!@#. I went for my honeymoon and guess that they couldn't reached me so gave up in the end. When I came back, I saw them putting up that gown on the display window again. Geez, really want to con my money!! Luckily I didn't pay them RM1200.
Toasting to the guests as a form of thanking them for the blessing and coming to our wedding reception! (I looked so pretty in this pink purplish gown, love it! ^.^)
